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Help with relationships

Even though most of my site is written in Dutch, I do provide counseling in English. This page is similar to my homepage in Dutch. Please feel free to reach out to me about any other page on my site.

In conversation with me, you gain insight into the dynamics of your relationship(s):

Insight into your and your partner’s mental responses.

Insight into how things work between you.

These insights can help you to look at tough situations differently, allowing you to develop or change your relationship(s).

Interested to find out how I could help through couple counseling or coaching? Please contact me for a free introduction.

hulp met relaties

Noticing any of these?

  • Do you feel misunderstood?
  • Being in the relationship becomes tiring?
  • Moving towards sex becomes less natural?
  • Are you in conflict more often?
  • Did someone cheat, but you would like to be together?
  • Did your faith in your relationship diminish?
  • Do you think autism might play a role with yourself or your partner?

Or struggling with this?

  • The relationship became less effortless
  • You like someone else
  • A mismatch in libido or sexuality
  • Having a hard time expressing your desires or preferences
  • Exploring the idea of opening up your relationship
  • Struggling with life changes like work, housing or family
  • Differences in perception due to autism or ADHD

Understanding and clarity within complexity

I provide insight and a clear overview of your situation. You do not need to understand your situation or problem in order to get help. I will ask questions and make sure to understand what is going on. I will actively confirm my understanding with you. I will show how things relate to each other and what dynamics work within your relationship. I help to detect misunderstanding and create understanding. I reflect on what you tell me and make topics approachable. 

Ethical relationships

I support anyone who is interested in, or part of, a relationship that arose through open, free and active consent. I consider relationships like these to be ethical relationships. They can exist between any gender and regardless of any sexual or romantic orientation.

What therapy looks like

Free introduction or paid intake

Followed by 2 to 8 sessions

Decide per session whether and how you proceed

2 to 4 weeks between sessions

At my office or remotely

Collectively decide when we bring our sessions to a close.

Pay by invoice, on a monthly basis

Based on preferences and needs

Throughout our sessions I work with your experiences, needs, stakes and boundaries. We explore these together, and find out how we can best incorporate these into the relationship. We develop a shared language that allows you to share and listen to each other. 

praktijk en tarieven hulp met relaties

What to expect

Together we find room for movement. Typically we do not need to dig into, or analyse, the past: we look at the current situation. I support sharing, listening and empathy between you. You both work on solutions and relief. I draw on our innate human capacities and we are free to set up support in any form, regardless of whether this is therapy or coaching.

Sessions and costs

Introduction – 25 min

With or without your partner(s): get to know me the way I work. Discover whether we match. 

Cost: free

Intake – 1 hour

Explore your situation with me and get some clarity and understanding. Finding out whether my approach and methods fit your needs. Finding clear agreement on privacy, process and consent.

Cost: 100 euro incl. taxes

Session with your partner(s) 1-2 hours

Share experiences, feelings and perceptions. Get insight into your situation, creating room for development or change.

Cost: 150 euro per hour incl. taxes 

Session without partner(s) – 1 hour

Share what is on your mind, getting clarity and understanding through answering my questions. 

Cost: 120 euro incl. taxes

Are these fees out of reach?

Would you like to receive help but cannot afford my fees? Please reach out to me in order to discuss your situation. I’d love to explore together what solution would fit your situation.

Sessions and costs

Introduction – 25 min

With or without your partner(s): get to know me the way I work. Discover whether we match. 

Cost: free

Intake – 1 hour

Explore your situation with me and get some clarity and understanding. Finding out whether my approach and methods fit your needs. Finding clear agreement on privacy, process and consent.

Cost: 100 euro incl. taxes

Session with your partner(s) 1-2 hours

Share experiences, feelings and perceptions. Get insight into your situation, creating room for development or change.

Cost: 150 euro per hour incl. taxes 

Session without partner(s) – 1 hour

Share what is on your mind, getting clarity and understanding through answering my questions. 

Cost: 120 euro incl. taxes

Are these fees out of reach?

Would you like to receive help but cannot afford my fees? Please reach out to me in order to discuss your situation. I’d love to explore together what solution would fit your situation.

Based on preferences and needs

Throughout our sessions I work with your experiences, needs, stakes and boundaries. We explore these together, and find out how we can best incorporate these into the relationship. We develop a shared language that allows you to share and listen to each other. 

praktijk en tarieven hulp met relaties

What to expect

Together we find room for movement. Typically we do not need to dig into, or analyse, the past: we look at the current situation. I support sharing, listening and empathy between you. You both work on solutions and relief. I draw on our innate human capacities and we are free to set up support in any form, regardless of whether this is therapy or coaching.

Get acquainted or ask a question

Would you like to better understand how things work together? Want help? Send me your questions or book a free introductory meeting to find out whether my approach fits your preferences.

Even without a clear request

Any relationship type

Gain clarity and insight

With or without partner(s)

Call me at 06 14 89 45 99 or fill in the form if you would like me to reach out to you.

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